When I read from the Bible, I typically use the NIV (New International Version) translation. However, I often like to go back and read the same passage in The Message translation. It is a little more modern and basic, and sometimes just puts things in a way that really hits home for me. This particlar verse stood out to me when I re-read it in The Message.
The tongue has the power of life and death,
and those who love it will eat its fruit.
Proverbs 18: 21 (NIV)
Words kill, words give life;
they're either poison or fruit—you choose.
Proverbs 18: 21 (The Message)
As a parent, I'm even more aware of the need for an appropriate tone and delivery. I often find myself reminding William to speak kindly, and then I begin to think about what kind of example I'm setting for him. Do I speak with kindness? Is my tone controlled or accusatory? Am I speaking without thinking? I need to ask myself the same things I’m challenging him with, and live what I believe!
1 comment:
I often think about this too, especially with the boys. It's hard to tell them not to be rude to their sisters if I am being sarcastic or short-tempered with them. :)
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